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Tragedy
breeds good neighbors
By CHRIS CONROY
MONGAUP VALLEY — In full uniform, complete with
white gloves and black-banded badges, members of the Smallwood-Mongaup
Valley Fire Department marched in formation across 17B and down
to the doors of St. Joseph’s Church.
They arrived a half-hour early for the service
and the church was already full. Still in formation, they stood
at the door, some completely outside the church for the hour-long
mass.
This was how they chose to honor a man most didn’t
know.
Steven Genovese was a son, husband and new father.
He was also a 17-year employee of Cantor-Fitzgerald, the bond trading
firm that had offices on the floors 101-105 of One World Trade Center.
When the tower was struck by a hijacked plane on September 11, Steven
was on 104th floor.
“This is such a tragedy,” said Margaret Genovese,
Steven’s mother and co-owner of Gaetano’s Café in Mongaup Valley.
Margaret and Jack, Steven’s father, were in the World Trade Center
during the 1993 bombing that killed six people. “That attack was
bad,” she said, “but this… this has shaken our world.”
More than 300 friends, family and community members
attended the October 7 memorial mass for Steven, filling the small
church and the seats set up outside. “There aren’t any people in
the world like those in Sullivan County,” Jack said. “They’re wonderful.”
“I didn’t even know there were this many people
in Monticello,” Steven’s brother John said as he briefly stepped
to the podium before the mass ended. “Thank you all.”
During the mass, the tall Easter candle was lit
with Steven’s photo resting at its base. The candle, said Father
Janel in his homily, “reminds us that we live in this world in hope,
not in despair; that death is not the end but the beginning.”
Earlier that day, the United States and Great Britain
began retaliatory strikes on targets in Afghanistan. “It’s something
that needed to be done,” Margaret said. “I support the action, but
I can’t watch it [on the news]. It’s too much [for me] right now.”
“The worst thing about this,” Jack said, “is that
I have nothing to bury. [New York Mayor Rudy] Giuliani will be sending
out urns filled with ashes from the site, but that will go to his
wife [Shelly]. I get nothing.”
“Those first few days were terrible,” Margaret
said, telling of the anticipation of good news every time the phone
rang. “We hoped every time that it was Steven.” Friends, both local
and from the city, were there for the family the entire time.
“This kind of support is what community is all
about,” she said. “I don’t know what we’d do without it.”
Memorial contributions in Steven’s name may be
made to The United Way of Sullivan County, 33 Lakewood Avenue, Monticello,
NY 12701.
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